Meet Darcy Parnes, Owner of Soirée NJ! - Morris Bernards Moms

 

Let’s start with the basics—where are you originally from, and what brought you to this area? How long have you been living here?
Having grown up in Springfield, NJ, I never imagined how transformative it would be to move to the small Morris County town of Mountain Lakes, where the serene beauty and the vibrant lake life have become a source of happiness and inspiration.

Tell us about your family! How many kiddos do you have, and what ages/stages are they in?
As a devoted mom to my four children—Wyatt, 12, Mayven, 10, Coco, 8, and little Remington, 2—along with our two fluffy Samoyeds, I find daily life to be a beautiful whirlwind of laughter, love, and joyful chaos.

Can you share how the idea of Soirée NJ came to life?
Soirée NJ was born from my desire to create celebrations where parents could truly relax and savor the magic of their children’s parties, knowing every detail was thoughtfully planned. What began as a beloved clothing boutique that faced the challenges of COVID evolved into this wonderful new chapter, transforming loss into an inspiring opportunity to bring joy and connection to families.

Designing an event space from scratch is no small feat! What were your must-have elements when creating Soirée NJ, and how did you make the space feel so magical?
When creating Soirée NJ, I wanted to fill a gap I noticed in the party world: while there are plenty of spaces designed for boys, there were hardly any where girls could truly feel whimsical and magical. Every corner of Soirée NJ was thoughtfully designed with sparkles, soft textures, and enchanting details to create a space where girls can dream, play, and feel celebrated in a world built just for them.

What kind of parties and events do you offer?
At Soirée NJ, we offer an array of unforgettable parties, including Fashion Design Parties, Makeup & Spa Parties, Slime Adventures, and Stuff-Your-Own-Animal experiences. Every party comes with two hands-on activities, plenty of time for singing and dancing, and a moment to enjoy food, ensuring a fun-filled celebration for every child.

If a mom reading this wants to book an event but has no clue where to start—what’s step one with Soirée NJ?
If you’re a mom ready to plan a magical celebration but aren’t sure where to start, your first step is simple: visit our websites for The Summit Soirée or The Madison Soirée to explore our party packages, or give us a call at 862-783-3697 to chat through your ideas and find the perfect fit for your family.

As a mom and a business owner, what has been the biggest challenge in juggling both roles — and what’s helped you stay grounded?
As a mom and business owner, the biggest challenges are honestly too many to count—there’s never enough coffee, time, or hands to go around! What keeps me grounded (and mostly sane) is stealing little moments with my kids, leaning on my incredible team, and reminding myself that chaos can also be magical—especially when it’s full of laughter, glitter, and birthday cake.

Ok 10 Fun LOCAL favorites – ready, go!
1 – Favorite thing to do with your kids? Paddle boarding in Mountain Lakes NJ
2 – Favorite coffee spot? Sunday Motor Co. in Madison!
3 – Favorite lunch place? Biladi Mediterranean in Madison!
4 – Favorite farm to go fruit picking? Wightman’s and Alstede
5 – Favorite date night restaurant? Nami Nori in Montclair
6 – Favorite boutique? LoveShackFancy
7 – Favorite spot to grab a drink? The Summit House
8 – Who has the best bagels in town? Bagel Supreme in Springfield
9 – Best slice of pizza in town? Casa D Pizza in Denville
10 – Favorite spot for ice cream? Denville Dairy

This interview was done in partnership with Soirée NJ, be sure to check out their websites for The Madison Soirée or The Summit Soirée, plus follow them on social media below:

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